Friday, January 17, 2014

Angry

According to Oxford dictionary Angry is : feeling or showing strong annoyance, displeasure, or hostility; full of anger so that was how i feel last week and surprisingly this week. Actually, to be angry is an option which i can choose not to be but sometimes like what people always say, everything has a limit, including how people feels be it happy, sad or angry.
There is a story entitled Anger Management and by reading it's title you know what the story is all about. I think, to critic that movie, it is all about self control and being considerate towards everything and everyone. Avoid the negative thinking and stop being judgemental. Always put yoursel in someone's shoes. If you can mange this, you are fine. 


Feelings could be affected by many reasons. Surroundings, Human, animals, things, memories and etc. All of these could affect your feelings and it is up to you and me to react on it. Some may be cool but some may not. Some put it away but others might handle it dfferently. There is no right and wrongs for being angry as long you won't get your self into trouble!
Some people takes time to recover from angry. As for me, most of my anger last only within 10 seconds while the longest was 1 incident where it took me a year plus to cool down! It happen when a friend (a best friend actually) had a conflict when we were in the junior secondary school. It was a cold war indeed. But after that one long year, i started to think why should i continue with this feeling since we were grown up and getting older? Evantually we made up and on the same day, we went to watch The terminator 2 at the Miramar cineplex. We are still friend until now though we are no longer 'Best Friend'.
To end this post, i rather be happy than sad. If i may get angry, let it be within seconds and if i HAVE to be angry, please leave me alone.... but i'll get back to you when i'm okay.

 A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger - Proverbs 15:1

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